**** Trigger warning**** On September 23, 2018 I wrote the following article for my blog. It was an emotional time for me. I didn't post it. Instead I sent it to a few online publications. Millions of articles went out to hundreds of print and web based news outlets. Mine became just one more. Think about that for a minute as you consider how many more incidents have hit the news since September 23rd. I've been finishing the first draft of my 365 day memoir, revisiting all of